belated adulthood notes

Just had my credit limit raised today, without requesting it. That's my first credit limit raise.

I'd like a second card, but I'm still getting turned down when I apply for decent ones. I don't bother applying for anything with annual or initial fees. It's just a matter of time, I'm sure; I'm being very good about using the card and paying it down.

I haven't been posting much, and I hope to pick up next week; I've been working my tail off, and that's going to continue through the weekend. At that point, we should be in pretty good shape for our trip to Seattle to see family (a very short trip, but I'm still going to lose four work days).

Back to the grind now.

palm resources

I've successfully installed the Palm OS on my Nokia N800 (mostly because the N800 doesn't have Personal Information Manager software).

It's been years since I inhabited the Palm universe. I would very much like to know:

What are the programs that people have found most useful, especially improvements on the standard calendar, to-do, contacts, etc programs?

Where on the web are the best repositories of Palm software and information?

our dads

A relationship in the novel I'm proofreading has reminded me of one of my favorite stories from my teenage years. What's more, I'm going to tell it.

I was born and raised in Seattle. You probably know that it's a large city: a metropolitan area of a couple million at the time I lived there. I met my first girlfriend when I was eighteen -- I've told the essential part of that story before -- and because we met as fellow amateur cast participants at the Rocky Horror Picture Show, we had little background or history in common: not neighborhood, nor school, nor clubs or church or activities, no internet back then, no shared friendships. I was from Ballard, in northwest Seattle, and she was from Duvall, so far out in the sticks that at that time it was barely suburban, edging on rural.

Several weeks into the relationship, Marie was driving us somewhere, and she said, "We're really close to where my dad works. I'll swing by so you can see it." We were in Juanita, one of many enclaves on the east side of Lake Washington. I was up for whatever she wanted to do, and I didn't know what her dad did for a living. When we drove up to a grocery store -- a Tradewell -- and parked, it took me a few seconds, out of context, to understand that I recognized it.

"Your dad works here?" I said. "Mm-hm," she said.

"My dad," I said slowly, "manages this store."

As it happened, neither of our dads was working that day, so there was no point to going in. That night we went to a party of our Rocky Horror friends. There was a huge thunderstorm, and I was effectively trapped on the east side of the lake for the night. I was happy to be trapped in someone else's house with Marie and no adults around, but my parents were understandably unimpressed, and I knew I was going to be in trouble when I got home. But I also knew that the fact that our dads worked together would be an amusing surprise and a useful distraction.

I was right about the surprise, not so much about the amusing. "So, hey, Dad," I said once I had a reasonable opening, "you know how Marie's last name is Bauer? Guess where her dad works?" Just a little pause here, of course, and then: "Your store!"

Dad stared at me. "Marie is Jack* Bauer's daughter?" He stood there for a few more seconds, then simply turned and walked out of the room without saying anything more.

It wasn't the reaction I'd expected. "What's that about?" I said to my mom.

Mom has a matter-of-fact tone that's so deadpan she almost sounds cheerful. "Well, your father and Mr. Bauer don't get along very well."

It turned out that Marie's dad was the veteran of the store, had been there for decades. My dad was several years younger than Marie's dad, and was brought in from another store to be the manager, something that Marie's dad resented (I gather) and could not forgive. And I suppose it's likely that they didn't like each other for other reasons.

The next day Marie told me that she'd gone home with the same amusing news, blissfully unaware of her father's feelings about my father. Mr. Bauer, a gruff man who I have to say always treated me decently, apparently sat in silence for a long minute after hearing this news, then said, "Must be fifty thousand boys your age in this city. And you have to choose the boss's son."

Naturally, teenagers being what they are, we thought it was fun to drop in on them at the store after that whenever we could.

*I don't actually remember Marie's dad's given name.

pda advice solicited

So, while I like my Asus EEE, it has not proven to be the PDA solution I wanted, mostly because it's too slow, though not being able to fit in a pocket is also a problem. Since the Clio is no longer available, there doesn't seem to be anything pocket-sized with a keyboard. Anyway, I can't just whip out the EEE and enter data into it, so I need something else.

My general question is: Even though I don't need another cell phone, am I better off getting a smartphone than the modern generation of PDAs? I know there's a lot more active development going on with smartphones; am I going to get more actual PDA value that way, regardless of the phone?

I want to spend under three hundred. The Palm TX (possibly supplemented with a stowaway keyboard) was looking like the best answer, but man they get hammered by the customer reviews at Cnet and Amazon. And with some of the same complaints I've had with Palm, such as the digitizing getting hopelessly out of sync (the tapping of the stylus lighting a different place than you tapped).

Thanks!

[edited to add: I have purchased a Nokia N800. Hurray!]

digitizing

The next batch of cds to leave the house will include:

Auteurs:
Now I'm a Cowboy
After Murder Park

Arson Garden:
Under Towers
Wisteria
The Belle Stomp

Astrid:
Strange Weather Lately
Modes of Transport

The Avalanches: Since I Left You
David Axelrod: The Axelrod Chronicles
Kevin Ayers: Rainbow Takeaway
Baader Meinhof: s/t
Baby Lemonade: Exploring Music

unhappy food discoveries

Apparently "Baltimore sweet crab chowder" is a variant on that grotesque heresy, Manhattan chowder. It's disconcerting to be geared up for a nice creamy chowder and get this tomato yuck instead.

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